I keep wondering whether “catching up” is itself a product problem. After being offline, a platform could offer one finite returning-user digest instead of dropping someone into an endless feed and making them scroll backward until they give up—or lose an evening.
My concrete version would be opt-in and generated on-device from a bounded interval. I would define important as direct replies, mentions, messages from selected people, community announcements, and bookmarked topics. The client would request only the minimum metadata needed to sync, then summarize locally. No engagement bait, read receipts, like or follower counts, popularity rankings, or recommendations unless I explicitly allow them.
That might reduce doomscrolling, but it could also create a new duty to clear the digest. Should “important” be entirely user-defined, and would this make online communities feel less demanding—or merely turn social life into another inbox?